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Post by Ashen on Apr 6, 2013 14:48:49 GMT -6
Would she be willing to join the forum Twoworlds?
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Post by twoworlds on Apr 6, 2013 18:48:48 GMT -6
She the fox or She the feline?
I'm not in touch with the big cat anymore and the fox. She is struggling with allot and rarely wants to talk to me about it. Her biological dad is one of us but he is self hating and has completely dropped contact with her since he found out she was one also. She doesn't feel she fits in because of it and I can't really get close to her to convince her otherwise as her boyfriend is one of THOSE types. You know the ones that become violent to any male getting near his girlfriend. From the fox's point of view being one of us has brought her nothing but pain and she wants to be rid of it and be normal. That is what she is telling herself anyway. She heard me out regarding the nutty professor and the medication so I think there is hope for her but I can't reach her at this time.
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Post by Ashen on Apr 6, 2013 22:08:59 GMT -6
*nods* I understand, if there is anything we can do, just let us know so we can try.. that seems like a very hard situation on top of every thing else that might be going on in her life...best of luck.
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Post by moonbeam on Apr 6, 2013 23:55:35 GMT -6
I really do wonder with weres who have had experience being medicated how much of it happened as a direct result of therianthropy and how much was because of other complications that mixed with it to the point that the focus became unhappiness with their animal aspects?
When I was growing up, my mom was very keen to try to foist mental illness off on me, but none of the psychologists she took me to agreed with her. Consequently, I never became medicated. But all of these meetings were introductory type things, and they were looking for specific disorders based on what my mom told them she thought was my problem. Nothing that was wrong with me matched what they were looking for (my mom wanted me to be depressed, suicidal, DID, or have something akin to oppositional defiance disorder - none of which fit me even remotely), so it was off to the next therapist to see if she could find back up. In the end, her only recourse was the church.
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Post by twoworlds on Apr 7, 2013 8:29:16 GMT -6
Well her boyfriend sighed up for the military.. provided he gets in (I seriously doubt it) It will give me opportunity to try and get in-contact with her.
Strangely enough I think my old pastor would accept weres, oh he wouldn't really believe in us but he would at lest accept us as we are. He was just that kind of guy, the church as a whole.. eh... I know a few in it that have but one was an empath (he "felt" me and knew I was a wolf) and the others close friends. As a whole no, they aren't that open minded. They ended up scumming to fishbowl syndrome.
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Post by wolfvanzandt on Apr 7, 2013 12:00:24 GMT -6
I don't mind therapists new to therianthropy contacting me. I also don't mind Therians having my email address.
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Post by soma on Apr 7, 2013 12:37:20 GMT -6
i know in my particular instance medication didnt trigger it or cause it it was already there,what it did do was some meds would put me in a non feeling shell such as prozac,was completely toermented inside but my outside was calm,i had no emotion i couldnt feel anything but there was this part of my brain that was constantly raging.others gave me impulse control problems where id act out without even realizing it,some just made everything completely numb none of them quote on quote helped a damn thing.again this was my experience i understand some people actually need them but i just think meds are on the whole completely over prescribed just to make pharm companies lots and lots of money while zombifying the nation. but yeah rant aside back to point didnt trigger it or cause it it angered it if anything assuming for trying to completely control it in yet another way...again in my personal experiences
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Post by wolfvanzandt on Apr 7, 2013 15:30:20 GMT -6
I think psychiatry is beginning to realize that they've been prescribing all together too much. There's way to many studies that are pointing out that there are natural alternatives that are usually as effective as medication that doesn't deactivate you.
Also, Mental Health is often so entranced by Social Security dollars that they ignore the real needs of clients. I've had clients that couldn't take part in a vocational rehabilitation program (that would make them independent) because Mental Health wouldn't let go of them long enough to let them take part in another program.
I have a friend right now who's trying to get out of a Mental Health program so he can go to college. They'll be releasing him, though, or I'll be entering the fray.
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